
I just got home from watching the graduation ceremony at my base high school. It was very nice and kind of long. The ceremony itself started at 9:30 and would have gone until 12:30 except the disc showing memories of the graduating class quit working half-way through.
I know I don't speak the language but it always seems as if everyone knows what to do in a choreographed style without much prompting. It's possible I miss some things, but today when the graduating class was about to walk in, a song started playing. All at once everyone started clapping to the beat of the song. There were no instructions. I know that because I was there from the beginning and I think I would have noticed an announcement and then asked someone what was said. All the students, all the teachers, and all the parents knew they were supposed to clap to the beat. This was the first time I had seen this done. Perhaps this happens at all functions. I don't know. It just always amazes me that everyone always know what to do. Even the students. I know back home we can give instructions for days on how something is going to run, and when we get to the actual event you can bet your money there are going to be several students completely lost complaining that no one told them what to do. It's really bizarre how students here know what to do and when without someone going behind them all the time to prompt them. I know that cultures are different, but come on. Sorry I'm a little ranty today. It just annoys me that my American kids who are every bit as smart as my Japanese kids can't seem to listen and follow instructions. Okay. Done. Sorry.
The ceremony went as quietly and traditionally as I assume all ceremonies around Japan were taking place today. I kept waiting for the loud cheers and air horns to go off or for students to pull some crazy stunt. It wasn't until 3-kumi or 4-kumi got up that there was a break from decorum. I think it was the baseball boys. When his name was called, two different students shouted, "hai!" I thought wow, that's brazen. (The ceremony was very demure, very quiet and organized.) Then, in one of the lower classes, two boys stopped the line after they received their diplomas to say, "Father, Mother, thank you," which I thought was very sweet. There were no beach balls. No air horns. There was one family who got a little rowdy and yelled a bit when their daughter's name was called. Otherwise, everyone just clapped politely for everyone. It was nice. Then there was more singing. Then another speech. It was almost like going to mass with all the standing and bowing and sitting and singing and listening and bowing in unison.

Afterward, we went outside the gym to wait for the graduating class to exit. That's when I saw that someone had set up a little stand outside the school gates to sell flowers, plushies, candy, and balloons for anyone who forgot to bring a gift to their student. My friend commented on how they think of everything. One would probably profit very well by setting up shop outside the gym at UH on graduation days.
Oh, and I almost forgot how some of the female teachers were wearing hakama. Think kimono and you get the idea. I asked if it is formal wear and was told yes, but usually just for graduation ceremonies.
After all the students left at about 2:30, we teachers finally got to eat lunch. Teachers gave speeches. Jokes were made. I can't tell you any of them since they were all in Japanese and nobody translated. I'm not complaining. It's my fault for not speaking the language but it doesn't make me feel better when another teacher turns to me and says, "that was very funny. It's too bad you didn't understand any of it." Really? Thanks.
All in all, it was nice to see the students graduate. I had worked one-on-one with a couple of them, and I recognized a few others from class, so it did mean something to see these young adults taking their next step. I wish them all the best of luck.